Can you imagine an America in which a considerable number of the most famous, most beautiful, most lucrative and most desirable black women were partnered with non-black men? Hard to picture, isn’t it? But this is the reality in converse for the...

Men and women say it time and time again, “I may be married, but I ain’t dead.” Another variation is, “I may have a ring on my finger, but I still got eyes.” These common sayings express that married people, though committed and monogamous,...

Sometimes I’ll be reading a story, watching a television program, listening to a talk show on satellite radio or even hearing real-life people talk, and I have to catch myself, pause, and think: “Did I hear that right?” The scenario usually...

Many couples in peril – once they’ve decided that the long-term prognosis for their marriage seems unsustainable, emotionally bankrupt, sexually depleted, financially treacherous or otherwise – face a difficult question: When should we...

‘Tis the season. Actually, the mayhem of the Christmas holiday begins right after Halloween, as product purveyors advertise their wares with red and green branding, shops display wrapping paper and ornaments front and center, sales flyers promote...