I was looking into a HAI workshop today and found thislist of "How to Make Love Stay" guidelines on ChipAugust's blog.Then I was reminded of Tom Robbin'squote about how to make love stay in one of myfavorite books, "Still Life With Woodpecker." I'msharing both with you here. I am finally realizing that love isn't something you find--love is something you make. A relationship isn'tsomething you disc...

I swear this is a real Craigslist ad. Posted in Marin County, California of course. Ever wonder about what it would be like to have a really hot (or really cool if you prefer!) Boyfriend that was a fully trained and certified Tantric Electrical Engineer Expert? Well, you can find out tonight (or even sooner!), if you're brave enough and willing to open up your Wholey Shakric Field Systems spontaneo...

Relationship counselor Scott Kalchenstein wrote this essay and sent it out today in his newsletter. It's his playful and provocative parody of The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People. It could create a whole new category at bookstores, a Self-Helplessness section. (This isn't actually original -- there are 2600 hits for "Seven Habits of Highly Ineffective People" in Google - and a book has alre...

About 10 years ago, when I was a lot snottier than I am now, my then boyfriend, Don drove up from San Diego to meet me on a weeknight for Valentine's Day. He was horribly late, dressed badly, and like an idiot, didn't even book a reservation in a restaurant. So here we are, it's like 9 pm, I'm grouchy and starving, my blood sugar has bottomed out so low that I'm almost dizzy, and we're driving all...

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