Well, Paula and I were really doing a lot better. Things were going well. Of course the pain of Kye's loss never went away, but it no longer controlled us. I guess you could say that we found our new normal (things will never just be "normal"...

When Kye died, it hit us really hard. Ever since then, I have found that for Paula and I, we have a lot more trouble handling things and other people's grief. A little while ago, my wife's cousin Jen went to hospital and within a couple of weeks, she...