So I do this thing. Well I do lots of things but this one thing could be considered a big relationship flaw.  But the funny thing is I do it before I’m even officially in a relationship. I have this habit of bringing up things, making lists, and...

I haven’t really been going out with guys lately(officially). There are a million reasons why, but I get far to many emails from all of you saying you like it better when I write about dates I’ve been on. Well here is the thing guys (I say guys not...

It’s been a great day today, it really has, and the day isn’t close to being done. I just had to write about it. 1. I woke up smiling, and the sun was shinning in.  I live in NYC we all don’t have the pleasure of having sunny bedroom...

When people ask me what my ‘type’ is I never know how to answer. I’ve dated and been attracted to many different ‘types’ of guys. I am attracted to little things, those small maybe even unnoticeable things that don’t fit into a box of types. I do...

Guy sitting next to me at bar, motion with his finger as if he wants me to come over.  After about what seems like 5 minutes of him making this motion. Plum:  I’m sorry are you fingering to me? Guy:  I knew if I fingered long enough you’d come for...