The holiday season is fast approaching and many people often wonder how to handle alternative lifestyles such as polyamory and holidays.    I’d like to offer a list of Useful Tips that will help with the Cool Kids/Backward Family interface. If...

This is my top ten things you can do for great multiple relationships. 1. Don’t try to be a “good” poly person. If you’ve been reading online material a lot, you may have developed an idea of what a good polyamorous person should be doing, and you...

The Polyamorous Misanthrope was supposed to be a weekly column. It was for awhile and then I started drying up for topics.  Why?  Well, as I study polyamory, I see more and more that the advice I give, the lessons I’ve learned and the observations I...