Barbara C.

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Bill of Rights for Domestic Violence Victims

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 21, 2009, 11:07 pm
Domestic Violence Victim Bill of Rights * You have the right NOT to be abused. * You have the right to anger over past abuse. * You have a right to choose to change the situation. * You have ...
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How Abusers Stage Their Returns

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 20, 2009, 11:12 pm
How Abusers Stage Their Returns While the smooth talk that it takes to get an abused spouse to take them back varies from person to person, there are five major "strategies" that seem to cover most o...
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Put Off Mammograms? No WAY!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 20, 2009, 9:48 pm
A couple days ago I was sitting at the doctor's office getting a series of bloodwork done when I saw this: On Monday, the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force recommended that doctors delay mammog...
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Betrayal of the Bystanders

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 19, 2009, 11:10 pm
by Kathy Krajco Why do we feel so wronged by the people who believe a narcissist's lies about us? There are a number of reasons, but here is one of the biggest. It's because their credulity ...
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Can You Empathize?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 19, 2009, 9:01 pm
by Underground Panther in the Sky When I was growing up and I faced people in school on the bus, people who rejected and bullied me, soon I felt strange, like I had been marked. When kids from schoo...
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Stop The Silence

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 17, 2009, 11:27 pm
by Sandra Kiume This is a letter to the editor of my local paper that wasn’t published. Slightly modified to be more global. “Hurry up, you fat f***ing bitch,” said the young man. His companio...
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Uninsured Likely to Die in E.R. Study Shows

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 17, 2009, 9:15 pm
ABSOLUTELY CRIMINAL FOR THE U.S.! Uninsured patients with traumatic injuries, such as car crashes, falls and gunshot wounds, were almost twice as likely to die in the hospital as similarly injured pa...
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Pathological Narcissism - A Spiritual Disorder

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 16, 2009, 11:57 pm
Dr. Maria Hsia Chang, Professor Political Science, University of Nevada In psychology, personality disorders refer to individual traits that reflect ingrained, inflexible, and maladaptive patterns of...
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Hannity OWNED by Jon Stewart

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 16, 2009, 5:09 am
The tea party protests continued last week, as Congresswoman Michele Bachmann held an anti-health-care-reform rally on the steps of the Capitol. While she estimated that 20,000-45,000 people attended ...
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When Enough is Enough

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 15, 2009, 11:24 pm
By Lanie Pambid Would you believe that love can be gone in a blink of an eye? Based on facts that I am going to share with you is that it CAN happen. A couple who has been together for a few years w...
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The Shame of it All - The Torture of Silenced Victims

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 15, 2009, 9:29 pm
This is what happens when abuse victims (ANY kind of abuse, and any religious or cultural background) are silenced!: By SUSAN EDELMAN and KIRSTEN FLEMING A Brooklyn newlywed who jumped to his death...
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Men's Secret Lives

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 14, 2009, 11:03 pm
What are they really doing online? The power of the internet is helping friends, families and loved ones stay more connected than ever. There is a wealth of information and opportunity available on th...
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Obambi - Oh-OUCH!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 14, 2009, 10:50 pm
READ THE WHOLE REPORT HERE!
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The Woman: Skewer Her... and LOOK WHAT HAPPENED!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 14, 2009, 5:07 pm
If you read nothing else today, PLEASE READ DONNA DARKO This appears to be an updated post from August that begins by accounting the history of how the primaries and caucuses were used to skewer The ...
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Centerfold Syndrome & Men

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 13, 2009, 11:18 pm
The Centerfold Syndrome ------------------------------------------------------------ Psychologist Dr. Gary R. Brooks, in his book, The Centerfold Syndrome: How Men Can Overcome Objectification and Ac...
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Let's Hope Effective Treatment is Just Around the Corner!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 13, 2009, 5:41 am
By DENISE GRADY Many people with chronic fatigue syndrome are infected with a little known virus that may cause or at least contribute to their illness, researchers are reporting. The syndrome, whic...
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Blind Diversity = Death

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 12, 2009, 9:07 pm
When I believe they're right - I am happy to give these opinions more bandwith on my blog: TERROR IN TEXAS The nation today ponders the irony of the slaughter of US soldiers, not on a battlefield...
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ALL ABOUT HIM - Why a Narcissist Enters Into a Relationship

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 11, 2009, 11:00 pm
Narcissus - Alanis Morissette
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Panic Disorder

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 10, 2009, 11:05 pm
What is a panic attack? Panic attacks are marked by a sudden, very intense episode of fear or anxiety. There is often a feeling of impending disaster, such as dying. Panic attacks come on very suddenl...
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Betrayal Trauma

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 9, 2009, 11:33 pm
What is Betrayal Trauma? What is Betrayal Trauma Theory? Short Definitions The phrase "betrayal trauma" can be used to refer to a kind of trauma (independent of the reaction to the trauma). E.g. Thi...
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ALL ABOUT HIM - BlogTalkRadio Show "Narcissism in the News: Rihanna & Chris Brown"

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 8, 2009, 11:01 pm
Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's...
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Abusive, Frightening Behavior... from Law Enforcement!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 8, 2009, 9:18 pm
My father, of blessed memory, was a respected Lieutenant with the NY State Troopers. And a Type II Diabetic, as was his mother and her whole family. That said, he would never, ever have done this. ...
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How to Deal With an Overbearing Mother

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 6, 2009, 11:02 pm
Does your mother try to tell you how to live your life? Or scrutinize every decision you make? Steps: 1. Realize there are reasons why your mother is overbearing and that you won't ever be abl...
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MUST WE FORGIVE?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 6, 2009, 2:04 pm
As many of you already know, I am not a fan of the current psychobabble 'forgive & forget' model of adult discourse. Some things are unforgiveable. I am always willing to listen, discuss, op...
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Mortified About Being Deployed?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 6, 2009, 5:16 am
By James Dao Born and reared in Virginia, the son of immigrant parents from a small Palestinian town near Jerusalem, he joined the Army right out of high school, against his parents’ wishes. The Ar...
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Are You Involved With a Psychopath?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 5, 2009, 11:36 pm
"Are You Involved With A Psychopath?" Stop The Madness By: Michael G. Conner, Psy.D, Clinical, Medical & Family Psychologist For most of us the idea of a psychopath conjures up images from movies li...
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Vitter's Lack of Responsibility to Rape Victims

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 4, 2009, 10:10 pm
In COMPLETE agreement with UppityWoman here: Here’s a rape victim who confronts that Weasel David Vitter and asks him why he didn’t support the bill that allows a rape victim to confront her rapi...
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Verbal Abuse

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 3, 2009, 11:55 pm
Calling her dumb, an idiot, stupid is verbal abuse. Putting her down, criticizing her, defeating her in argument for the sake of defeating, not for the sake of mutual enlightenment – this is verbal...
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Unhappy Relationships May Harm Women's Hearts

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 3, 2009, 11:35 pm
By Amy Norton An unhappy marriage can break a woman's heart, figuratively and literally. New research suggests that married women who are dissatisfied with their relationships face a higher risk ...
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When The Body Turns On Itself

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 3, 2009, 9:30 pm
I was greatly pleased and not surprised to see this in JPost in Sept. 2007. Israel has been a shining light in healthcare advances for many years. I believe that Israel may cure a number of autoimmu...
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Separation Safety Plan

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 2, 2009, 11:05 pm
The following steps represent my plan for increasing my safety and preparing in advance for the possibility for further violence. Although I do not have control over my partner's violence, I do ha...
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Overcoming the Role of Victim or Martyr

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 1, 2009, 11:52 pm
Overcoming the Role of Victim or Martyr Ten differences between being a martyr or a victim? 1. Martyrs are people who recognize they are being taken advantage of and choose to remain in the situatio...
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Is Blogging a Sin?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 1, 2009, 7:45 pm
SPEAK NO EVIL Goldberg, P.I. investigates lashon hara By Tod Goldberg November 2006, when the Pulitzer Prize board announced that blog posts are now eligible for the award, blogging officially becam...
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"Barry Knows Best" Show - Irksome

Barbara C. posted an article on - Nov 1, 2009, 6:36 pm
With difficult state elections and a crucial military decision looming, President Barack Obama sat down with his wife Michelle last month to give an in-depth magazine interview about a subject that ha...
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VERBAL, EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL ABUSE IS ABOUT CONTROL

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 31, 2009, 11:23 pm
CONTROLLING HER TIME: The abuser controls his partner's time by making her wait. He will say he is ready to talk, but will continue doing something else while his partner waits. He will tell her h...
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Recovering from Abuse

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 30, 2009, 11:02 pm
"Abused women aren’t “codependent.” It is abusers, not their partners, who create abusive relationships." Excerpt: Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, Lundy Bancr...
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Women and Health Insurance - Surprise!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 30, 2009, 1:36 pm
From a consistently great & illuminating blogger -- Rabble Rouser Rev. Amy: There has been a great deal of talk and debate about health care in the country recently as the Democrats push Heath Care R...
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Sharia Punishment - Behind the Wheel

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 30, 2009, 5:16 am
My question - WHY DO THESE PEOPLE MOVE TO THE U.S. IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT? from the awesome Uppity Woman: Arizona police are looking for an Iraqi man who they allege ran down his daughter and h...
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Con Artist = Abuser

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 29, 2009, 11:09 pm
Con artists scam because it gives them infinite pleasure to "put one over" on anyone who stands still long enough. The compulsion to scam is so strong that a con artist will produce a scam even if he...
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Sex & Porn Addiction

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 28, 2009, 11:51 pm
Treating Sexual & Pornographic Addictions Sex & porn addictions require therapists with special training in these areas for patients to have a good chance of recovery. These illnesses are very difficu...
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Emotional Rape: What Is It?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 28, 2009, 9:40 pm
Emotional rape can be defined as: Emotional abuse characterized by patterned and purposeful behavior which purpose is to undermine and control the victim. It is an attack on the victim's persona...
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Welcome to the ObamaCare Hotline!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 28, 2009, 9:27 pm
by Ed Morrissey Concerned Women for America has a series of humorous videos highlighting their objections to ObamaCare. They cleverly use one of the most annoying inventions of the modern age, the vo...
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Infidelity = A Form of Abuse

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 27, 2009, 11:49 pm
Infidelity causes pain and suffering. Sometimes, it becomes a form of emotional violence. By Michael Clanchy and Chris Trotter The Age (Melbourne, Australia), excerpts under "fair use" to encourage...
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Going Public

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 27, 2009, 5:48 am
Going public about any abuse you have endured can be a very healing and empowering experience. But it takes caution, thought and courage. Before I went public about some of the abuse I experienced i...
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Captive Hearts, Captive Minds

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 26, 2009, 11:27 pm
Freedom and Recovery from Cults and Abusive Relationships By Madeleine L. Tobias and Janja Lalich Chapter one excerpts - The Cultic Relationship. Cults may be large or small. What defines them is no...
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Rush: P'WNED!

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 26, 2009, 5:18 am
For goodness sake, Rush! I am not a fan of Obambi's (and I am certainly not a fan of yours) but can you just PRETEND to have some journalistic integrity and check things before you bloviate about...
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Who Is This Person?

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 25, 2009, 11:44 pm
"When Your Perfect Partner Goes Perfectly Wrong - Loving or Leaving the Narcissist in Your Life" by Mary Jo Fay Chapter 13 The Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde phenomenon that occurs in relationships with nar...
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The Danger of Denial

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 24, 2009, 10:49 pm
This article is another gem from Kathy Krajco on Narcissism. It is part of my blogging about emotional, verbal or mental abuse this month on this as well as my other blog to raise awareness about non...
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Disabled Women & Domestic Violence

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 24, 2009, 10:35 pm
Domestic Violence & Disabled Women By Holly A. Devine MSW, Program Director, and Carol Briggs, Outreach Coordinator, Barrier Free Living Domestic Violence Program Domestic Violence is a societal prob...
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Obama is Insulting Americans.... AGAIN

Barbara C. posted an article on - Oct 24, 2009, 10:13 pm
FROM: NO QUARTER: MSNBC carried a blip of President Obama speaking in New York at a fundraiser. Sadly, the President is up to his old tricks. Remember when he was at a hoity-toity fundraiser in San F...
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