Debbie T.

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Thanksgiving Is Coming And I Will Give Thanks!

Debbie T. posted an article on - Nov 16, 2009, 11:58 am
Thanksgiving is almost here, so that means another Thanksgiving Dinner without him, but it's okay. I realize that I have brooded over that man for far much longer than I should have. I look back o...
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Sometimes It Takes A Little While To Get Over It All

Debbie T. posted an article on - Nov 7, 2009, 11:28 am
What a lovely day it is today, not too warm out and the sun is shining brightly......inside I am wanting the joy to come through but for some reason, I feel blue inside. I have been doing sooooo well...
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Why Does He Keep Calling Me?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Nov 4, 2009, 3:46 pm
He called me again today and I missed his call.... WHAT does he want from me NOW???? Well, I found out, it was the same ole, same ole....he no longer wants our house, the one that he fought me tooth ...
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After The Divorce, Do You Truely Get On With Life?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Oct 30, 2009, 8:48 pm
I have seen so many people who have gone through a divorce and I have not seen too many "nice" divorces though I hear that they can exist. When my husband and I divorced, I was hurt, mad, sad and didn...
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Has He Suddenly Remembered He Has A Daughter?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Oct 27, 2009, 12:48 pm
Out of the blue, I get a phone call and low and behold, it's from him. Normally when I get a call from him it's all about him......something he needs, or needing my help with one thing or ano...
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More Sex, Or Less?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Oct 19, 2009, 9:46 am
I hear of some people who state that they noticed a fall in the amount of sex going on at home because their partner was with someone else. I think that once I actually found out about what was going ...
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10 Emotional Needs

Debbie T. posted an article on - Oct 15, 2009, 6:34 am
Here is a list of 10 emotional needs........ does your partner meet them for you? Do you have any to add to this list? 1. affection 2. sexual fulfillment 3. conversation 4. recreational compa...
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He Called Me To Tell Me "Happy Anniversary"

Debbie T. posted an article on - Oct 8, 2009, 3:29 pm
Today was just totally unexpected when he called me to tell me happy anniversary. I was shocked, stunned and speechless. I had just almost forgotten what this day was because of all the heartache he ...
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Thankyou All So Much For Your Support

Debbie T. posted an article on - Oct 7, 2009, 6:49 am
Thankyou so very much. Support is something very important in today's world. I could not imagine having to go through this kind of thing without having someone to lean on. I don't know but I h...
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And Life Goes On....

Debbie T. posted an article on - Sep 23, 2009, 4:02 pm
Well, it's been a little while since he's called me, which means that he doesn't need my help for anything, which is good. I would have thought that by now, and his being with the other wo...
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What Does The Other Woman Want With A Married Man?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Sep 16, 2009, 8:36 am
What would a single woman want with a married man? He isn't actually available, unless he's planning on leaving his wife and family. I know that my ex was NOT planning on me finding out about...
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He's With The Other Woman, So Why Can't He Give Me Some Peace?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Sep 15, 2009, 1:37 pm
Wev'e not been together in a long time.....he is with his other woman, is happy with her, and even though I don't hardly ever talk to him, he still lets me know that he loves me.....what is th...
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No One Ever Said It Was Easy, But It Can Be Done

Debbie T. posted an article on - Sep 12, 2009, 6:41 pm
Well, it's been awhile since I last saw his face. I think that's a good thing but I wonder sometimes how our life would be like today, right now, if we were still together. I feel if we would...
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Do You Believe That "Once A Cheater-Always A Cheater"?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Sep 3, 2009, 5:31 pm
Some people say it's true, that once a cheater, always a cheater but I don't know if I believe that entirely. I honestly think that some people are cheaters and that's what they want to do...
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Getting Through Infidelity and My Future

Debbie T. posted an article on - Aug 25, 2009, 2:40 pm
Some days I feel really strong and able to see that my future is really great, and other days, well, not so good. I think that when you have been through such a trama as infidelity with your partner, ...
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He's Gone and I Don't Have To Put Up With Infidelity Any More

Debbie T. posted an article on - Aug 20, 2009, 7:07 am
After all this time has passed, I sit here and wonder what my life would have been like without ever knowing him. Did I even gain anything by staying with him for such a long period of time? We have ...
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Living In The Comfort Zone

Debbie T. posted an article on - Aug 14, 2009, 7:43 am
Are you just there in a relationship because you are in the "comfort zone"? You may be miserable, knowing that you are with someone who is cheating and not sure what to do about it. People can tell yo...
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Learning How To Get Your Self Esteem Back

Debbie T. posted an article on - Aug 12, 2009, 7:58 am
Going through infidelity really tears you down, rips you up into many pieces. There were days that I didn't even want to go to work, cook, much less eat anything and all I did was cry and ask the...
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Daily Ponderings About The Future

Debbie T. posted an article on - Aug 11, 2009, 3:02 pm
Day after day goes by, my life seems to be doing alright since we split up.....no more worrying about where he's at, because I already know he's with her. It used to bother me so much because ...
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How Long Does It Take To Get Past Infidelity?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Aug 6, 2009, 3:04 pm
How long do you think that it takes for someone to recover after they've been cheated on? Is it something that you can just brush off your shoulder and move on as though it never happened? For me,...
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Loving Yourself

Debbie T. posted an article on - Jul 29, 2009, 5:53 pm

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How I Made The Decision To Go

Debbie T. posted an article on - Jul 19, 2009, 8:45 pm

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Have You Lost "You"?

Debbie T. posted an article on - Jul 15, 2009, 8:03 pm

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