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Betting on the team you don't support

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Feb 6, 2012, 7:24 am
Two weeks ago, a discussion came up regarding betting on the Super Bowl. Apparently, when the Giants lost three straight during the season, the futures bet for them to win the Super Bowl at like 80 to 1. A ton of Giants fans took that bet. Those people are rich now of course. One friend who I al...
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Xanga Mobile App - Finally!

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Feb 2, 2012, 8:01 am
For years, I've been waiting for Xanga to create an app. I used to use iBlogger on my iPhone to post entries, but for some reason, the app went dead a few months back. I used the Xanga mobile site (m.xanga.com), but the formats and spacing was all messed up. It became really hard for me to blog s...
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Friends going out with your Ex. Weird or not?

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jan 30, 2012, 8:29 am
So a friend of mine (Friend A) is dating the Ex-gf of another friend of mine (Friend B). Friend B and the Ex were together for about 3 years during college and she has a lot of mutual friends. A couple of years back, she began dating another one of Friend B's friends (Friend C). Before any other tho...
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Family Planning

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Dec 13, 2011, 11:11 am
http://sharingblankets.com/2011/12/family-planning/
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Grandchildren

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Dec 9, 2011, 6:14 am
My parents were tough as nails when I was a kid. I used to be so scared of my father that I'd pretend that I was asleep so that when he got home and my grandmother reported my bad behavior to him, he wouldn't wake me up and kick my ass. I'm pretty sure he knew I wasn't asleep, especially since I was...
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Losses and sadness

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Dec 6, 2011, 11:17 am
I've lost many things in my 30 years of existence... keys, money, friends, love... basically all the things normal people would lose one time or another.  I have this defensive mechanism where I just shut off and rationalize why I shouldn't be upset.  Lost my keys?  Well, I doubt whoever finds it...
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Bad relationships and breakups get all the attention

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Dec 1, 2011, 7:15 am
I noticed that my most popular entries, the ones that have thousands upon thousands of hits and are constantly recommended, are always the ones regarding bad relationships and breakups. Interestingly, my "happy relationship" entries get no love. Why is that? Do people just love drama?
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Fantasy football loss

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Nov 29, 2011, 7:12 am
Every year, my friends and I gather at a bar and we do a live draft for fantasy football. During the first couple of seasons, what winds up happening is that the teams who are not in the running for a playoff spot, sort of give up and do not bother playing, sometimes giving their opponents unfair ad...
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Guest Post: Lifelong Partner, Lifelong Travel Companion

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Nov 22, 2011, 1:25 pm
One thing I have always wanted to do was travel the world. Many people I know also want the same thing, but only 1 or 2 of them actually tried to make it come true. A few years ago when I was single, I thought I had to see and travel as much as possible. What if my future wife isn’t the perfect tr...
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Feeling the burn...

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Nov 14, 2011, 8:05 am
I've had some pretty serious injuries in my life. Broken bones, torn muscles and other tissues, getting beaten up by pipes, bad knee, etc. I always thought I had a high tolerance for pain. Maybe a bit masochist, but I would wonder from time to time if I could survive torture. A few weeks ago, some...
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What's up with women and holding doors?

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Nov 10, 2011, 8:03 am
When we first moved to Staten Island, Mrs. jigg has often complained to me that people rarely hold the doors for her--especially at the ferry station which has heavy exit doors. I thought that was preposterous since I almost never experience it. People hold doors for me and I hold the doors for the ...
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Earn it

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Aug 8, 2011, 10:12 am
"Earn this... Earn it..."  These were the last words of Captain James H. Miller to Private Ryan in the movie, Saving Private Ryan (If you haven't seen this movie already, you should be ashamed of yourself.  Please note that there may be spoilers in this entry).  That scene always strikes a chord ...
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Bachelor Party

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Aug 2, 2011, 10:46 am
This past weekend was my "Bachelor" Party.  When my groomsmen asked me what I wanted to do, I told them something fun, in the outdoors.  I didn't tell them "no-strippers" per se, but I reminded them how I felt about them.  A few weeks before, several of the groomsmen and I were already planning o...
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Weekend getaway

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jul 29, 2011, 5:41 am
I'm getting ready now to head to my "bachelor's party" for the weekend. Kind of in a hurry, so I'm just going to leave it at that.  But before I go, I just want to ask... based on what you know about me (based on everything you've read), what do you think will go on at this bachelor's party? I'...
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Maturity between men and women

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jul 25, 2011, 9:42 am
An interesting conversation came up this weekend concerning a mutual friend who recently got out of a long relationship. Since the breakup, he has been noticiably happier, smiling more than any of us has ever seen him. Anyway, a couple of us dissected the relationship and it was interesting hearing ...
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"So how's married life?"

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jul 18, 2011, 9:45 am
I'm not even joking when I say that I got that question over 50 times on Saturday.  I went to my fraternity's annual softball tournament and every brother I sat down to chat with asked me that question.  I answered along the lines of, "Good, nothing changed," and many of them were shocked.  It wa...
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Too young to walk home alone?

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jul 14, 2011, 9:38 am
As some of you may know, a 9-year old boy was abducted earlier this week by someone in his neighborhood and was found brutally murdered. The man was caught and confessed to the crimes. As this whole thing unfolded, people began asking, "What was a 9-year old doing walking home alone?" When I was 8...
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Zombie apocolypse dream team

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jul 11, 2011, 7:00 am
As we were began our 8-mile hike on Saturday, a conversation somehow started regarding my zombie apocalypse team--a list of 3 people I would want in my group in case there was a zombie apocalypse--to ensure maximum chance of survival. Being the resident zombie enthusiast of the group, my list is app...
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Work life and blog life

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jul 7, 2011, 7:27 am
A couple of weeks ago at a company conference dinner, the topic of how I met my wife came up. For you long time readers, you know I met Mrs jigg on Xanga. I always respond, "We met online." Maybe it's because I want to see their reactions since they usually ask, "Which site? Match.com?" It never ...
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Miscommunications

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jun 30, 2011, 10:21 am
I think it's so easy for people to miscommunicate and misunderstand one another.  Much has to do with everyone's effort to be tact with what they say, and how the person hearing it, deciphers what is meant.  Another issue is when people try to think of what the other person is thinking and then sp...
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Randomness

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jun 23, 2011, 5:36 am
-So I'm supposed to be at work by 8:30 today.  That would mean leaving my house 30-45 mins early.  Since it takes me about an hour and a half, I would have to wake up earlier just to make sure I catch the right train and ferry.  I don't use an alarm, but since I was sick and had to take meds, I d...
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Going going, back back to Cali Cali...

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jun 13, 2011, 7:16 am
I used to visit sunny California about twice a year, but things came up like getting married that got in the way. Mrs jigg and I will be traveling together for the first time. We've been on weekend road trips but this would be our first real vacation since being together. We have two weddings to ...
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WWJD - Comic #4

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jun 9, 2011, 11:48 am
  You can tell a lot about a person by the way they answer a question, especially questions they are not prepared for.  Mrs. jigg and I are always talking about really random things and much of our "arguments" are usually over stupid things that really have no bearing on our relationship.  Some...
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What would you go back home for?

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Feb 14, 2011, 7:23 am
As I was walking to my train this morning, I realized that I had forgotten my wallet. I was about a 7 min from home and decided that I would really be late for work if I went back, even though my Metrocard (train fare card) and my work ID was there. Since I carry my ATM/debit card, driver's license...
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Chinese parenting

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Feb 8, 2011, 8:03 am
One of my readers PMed me last week, asking me to blog about what I thought about Amy Chua's book and WSJ article. Although I believe this topic has been beaten to a bloody pulp, it is a pretty important topic to talk about because I will be a parent one day. Long time readers would know that I oft...
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Horoscopes, Traditions and Superstitions

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Feb 3, 2011, 8:14 am
Happy New Year! Chinese people believe all sorts of stuff. Even in the modern world where many people are educated, traditions and old beliefs are hard to get away from, especially the ones for Chinese New Year. Growing up, I was told to not wash my hair on new year day because the word "hair" is...
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Chinese New Year

Raymond Lee posted an article on - Jan 31, 2011, 8:04 am
The Chinese New Year is around the corner and Mrs jigg and I are cleaning up and preparing for it. I bought this candy tray yesterday and some candy so that guests would be able to have something sweet. One problem we had was deciding how much money to give out. Now that we're married, we have to ...
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