J O.

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Awkward Black Girl Interracial Dating

J O. posted an article on - Jan 26, 2012, 5:12 pm

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Our Sense of Entitlement

J O. posted an article on - Aug 19, 2011, 12:53 pm
I keep hearing over and over again how the poor, the young, anyone who isn't rich and white have a sense of entitlement and want what others work for. I get what is being said to an extent. If you get a degree and go into a company expecting be middle management the first day, that isn't going to h...
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Wall Street journal Article on IR Marriage

J O. posted an article on - Aug 9, 2011, 9:36 am
An Interracial Fix for Black Marriage Black women could find more partners across the race line—and it might just spur more black couples to wed By RALPH RICHARD BANKS "At this point in my life," says Audrey, age 39, "I thought I'd be married with children." A native of ...
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Dark Girls

J O. posted an article on - May 30, 2011, 1:14 pm
This is a documentary that is coming out later this year, exploring colorism and racism. I'm kind of interested. I find it odd though, that some of those women identify as dark skinned, when to me they might fall into the medium complected category. Maybe they grew up like me, and had people who ...
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Dishing Money Out To Black People

J O. posted an article on - May 26, 2011, 2:08 pm
I'm amazed that there are people in this world under the impression that the government just hands out money to black people. In matter of fact I just talked to a man today who told me that the Democratic party won the black vote by "dishing out money to them". I want to know what money? Where t...
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You Miss Me?

J O. posted an article on - May 7, 2011, 9:42 am
Probably not :) However the last year or so has been really freaking busy. Children are no joke. I have a newfound respect for parents, especially stay at home moms. Just because you stay at home, it does not mean you are sitting on your ass watching TV all day. I do miss blogging, but I just ...
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Vows: Felicia and Chris - nytimes.com/video

J O. posted an article on - Mar 11, 2011, 5:40 pm

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This is my life now :)

J O. posted an article on - Jul 29, 2010, 6:12 pm

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Have we started going backwards? Do we lack basic humanity for others?

J O. posted an article on - Jul 21, 2010, 3:46 pm
Yeah, I'm supposed to be on hiatus, but I want folks to look at this video. See what some of us have become. Let's start with the fact that these women fighting seem to be missing parts of their clothing. Some are missing pants. Some are missing tops. These are grown people fighting. Not kids,...
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I'm on Break

J O. posted an article on - Jul 15, 2010, 10:35 am
Hey you guys, You may have noticed that I don't post often and when I do, it isn't like my old posts. It's because this baby is HIGH MAINTENANCE. As a result, the blog is going on hiatus for a while. I'll be back, I think, but right now I have baby brain, and so I'm really boring, and can't be my ...
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A 7 Year Old Came On To Him?

J O. posted an article on - Jun 23, 2010, 1:18 am
In Baltimore there are two unrelated cases of little girls contracting gonorrhea. One is aged 7, the other 18 months. The 7 year old contracted from her mother's live in boyfriend. He said the girl came on to him, rubbing against him. Now, if a 7 year old "comes on to you", do you go ahead and s...
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Why Is YOUR Grandmother doing this?

J O. posted an article on - Jun 20, 2010, 11:50 am
Why is YOUR grandma doing this? I mean isn't she a little old to be hooking? Isn't she a bit old to try the hip hop game? Why did she get YOUR cousin to help out with this? I mean YOUR cousin should know better, right? Seriously how old is this woman? Shouldn't she be on medicare and social s...
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Africa A SIngle Story

J O. posted an article on - Jun 17, 2010, 11:04 pm
I loved this. It gives me a much different perspective. It's true, we have grown up to believe Africa is one huge country, one huge monolith of poverty,jungles, war, animals, and AIDS. Why do you think that people in the Western world, in particular the US have such a view of Africa, is it the ...
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Tom Foolery

J O. posted an article on - Jun 10, 2010, 7:26 pm

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I See Black People

J O. posted an article on - Jun 4, 2010, 11:01 pm
Arizona, you're proud of your racist reputation and plan to hold on to it as long as you can. A elementary school decided to paint a mural on their wall and used some of the students at the school as actual models. The mural depicts children using "green" transportation. Apparently this offended...
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My Grandfather and Health Camp

J O. posted an article on - Jun 3, 2010, 12:48 pm
This past weekend, the man I knew as my Grandaddy passed away. He was 92. It was kind of sudden, and I'm sad for many reasons, but I am grateful to have so many wonderful memories with him. As a kid he would take me places, like the park, to the neighborhood store, etc., but my one favorite pla...
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RIP Gary Coleman

J O. posted an article on - May 28, 2010, 10:09 pm
For those not aware, Gary Coleman has died. In his memory I will link you to my Diff'rent Strokes post.
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Lift Every Voice and Sing

J O. posted an article on - May 26, 2010, 5:18 pm
This is known as the black National Anthem. This song was written to take part in a ceremony celebrating Abraham Lincoln's birthday back in 1900. It was written so that black people could show their patriotism for America and hope for the future. I guess back then to some the only "true patriot...
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AAAAWwwwwwwww

J O. posted an article on - May 24, 2010, 11:18 pm

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Texas' State Board of Education

J O. posted an article on - May 23, 2010, 11:50 am
The Texas State Board of Education is now going to teach kids about slavery. Oops I mean the concept of indentured servants with lifetime contracts: I'd like to think I'm joking, but eventually this could very well be the case. Our SBOE passed some new social studies standards to ensure we don't ...
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We're Bringing Back Jim Crow Thanks to Rand Paul

J O. posted an article on - May 21, 2010, 5:03 pm
We got a black President. One step forward. Rand Paul disagrees with the Public Accommodation clause of the Civil Rights Act and wins Kentucky's republican primary for senator. Ten steps back. The Public Accommodation clause is the clause that most people should be familiar with. You've seen the ...
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If Dale Peterson Was Black

J O. posted an article on - May 19, 2010, 5:15 pm
This is an ad campaign for Dale Peterson. He's running for Agriculture Commissioner of Alabama. Now I won't get into why this man sounds like a nut job. I will however ponder this: If a black man was running for a public office using gun imagery and speaking using "black dialect" aka "ebonics"...
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R.I.P. Aiyana Jones

J O. posted an article on - May 16, 2010, 7:44 pm
In Detroit a 7 year old girl was shot by a police officer in a raid looking for a murder suspect. The police conducted a no knock search warrant and entered the home with a flash grenade. Per the police there was a 46 year old woman in the living area (the victim's grandmother) who apparently got ...
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"Black News"

J O. posted an article on - May 13, 2010, 9:16 am
Now I was actually going to put forth some effort and work on my blog today, but I couldn't come up with any topics. I'm kind of out of the loop when it comes to anything right now because I've been focusing on Rabbit. She's doing great by the way. She's a whole three months old!!!!! OK I'm sorry,...
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What's Wrong With Being A Conservative?

J O. posted an article on - May 4, 2010, 10:52 am
What's Wrong With Being A Conservative? Not a damn thing. You can be conservative all you want. I'm ok with it. I think you have a jacked up ideology and contradict yourselves, but that is just me. I'm just freaked out by conservatives due to your history and current antics. You guys seem not t...
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Arizona Welcomes In A New Era of Race Relations By Making Racial Profiling Legal

J O. posted an article on - Apr 30, 2010, 12:32 pm
I knew Arizona was "special", now I know they are extra crispy "special". In an effort to curb illegal immigration, they have decided to racially profile those who make "look illegal". I have figured out they are not going to target European immigrants. Their target will be those of the brown ski...
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What is this Tom Foolery? Dick Slang-NSFW

J O. posted an article on - Apr 30, 2010, 9:24 am
There are no words for this. Don't watch this at work.
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Kiely Williams - Spectacular: Is This Song About Date Rape? Video NSFW

J O. posted an article on - Apr 29, 2010, 8:34 am
When you start off the song with the words "Last night I was drunk. I don't remember much.", you've already lost. I know you are trying to shed your young, teen girl role model image, but really? These are the killer lyrics right here: "Last I remember I was face down Ass up, clothes off, broke...
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Tim Wise: Imagine: Protest, Insurgency and the Workings of White Privilege

J O. posted an article on - Apr 23, 2010, 3:50 pm
Imagine: Protest, Insurgency and the Workings of White Privilege By Tim Wise April 20, 2010 Let’s play a game, shall we? The name of the game is called “Imagine.” The way it’s played is simple: we’ll envision recent happenings in the news, but then change them up a bit. Instead of envision...
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Good Evening-Outasight

J O. posted an article on - Apr 15, 2010, 9:54 pm
Good Evening Outasight | MySpace Music Videos
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Not Surprised

J O. posted an article on - Apr 14, 2010, 6:33 pm
I've lived in Paris, TX. I've shared other issues that exist in Paris, TX. Shaquanda Cotton. Brandon McClelland. I'm curious why he company is in such denial about their treatment of their employees. Now they look like they are incompetent and unaware of what happens in their own work spaces. Why...
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Kids Today

J O. posted an article on - Apr 11, 2010, 6:22 pm
First off, I'm not going to discuss his sexual identity because: He's a child and may not be fully aware of is sexual identity and it's not my place to discuss. He might just have done this video as a joke I have no problem with his sexual identity be it straight, gay, bi, etc. Now wit...
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Kat Stacks

J O. posted an article on - Apr 7, 2010, 11:59 am
In my last post, I blogged about Erykah's Badu video, "Window Seat", in which Badu gets nude in downtown Dallas. I talked a little bit about exploitation and sexuality. On the same day I made that post, I found out about, Kat Stacks. I guess Kat Stacks is the new Karrine Steffans-McCrary aka ...
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Erykah Badu Controversy

J O. posted an article on - Apr 4, 2010, 10:42 am
So I know you guys have all heard about Erykah Badu's new video, "Window Seat". I'm not able to embed the video, but I will link to it here. I will however embed the video that inspired the "Window Seat" video by Matt and Kim. To give a summary for those not able to see the video, Badu bas...
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Label and Celebrity Obsession

J O. posted an article on - Mar 31, 2010, 9:34 am
I was having a phone conversation with a friend the other day, in which we talked about what I call "label whores". The people who can't pay rent, but is wearing the latest and greatest name brands and labels. The ones who scour magazines and try to replicate looks of celebrities. My friend,...
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Emails

J O. posted an article on - Mar 31, 2010, 9:27 am
This morning, I received a bunch of "failed delivery" emails, indicating that my email address is being used for spam. If you get an email from me with just a link in it, don't click it, I didn't send it. ::sigh::
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How I'm Privileged

J O. posted an article on - Mar 22, 2010, 3:51 pm
I just did a post on black male privilege. I also recently read this post and found it interesting. It was mentioned how many times those who are privileged fail to acknowledge their privilege. So I thought for once, I would acknowledge some of my privileges, at least some of the ones I know about...
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Going Back To Jim Crow

J O. posted an article on - Mar 21, 2010, 9:50 am
Since the election of our President, I have come to the conclusion that race wise, America is going backwards. This story about the tea party movement is especially telling to me. John Lewis, Barney Frank, along with others have indicated that they were called certain slurs by tea party protesters....
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White People Help Me Understand Glenn Beck And White Slavery In America?

J O. posted an article on - Mar 20, 2010, 2:39 pm
OK I know that some white people are upset a black man became President. I just didn't know that there was modern day white slavery in America. I also don't understand how in the 3/5ths compromise did not treat black slaves as 3/5ths of a person for tax purposes? I mean this is a great sum...
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Black Male Privilege

J O. posted an article on - Mar 18, 2010, 10:15 am
I heard an interesting story over at NPR. It's about something that is discussed here, in not so formal terms, but something that is often dismissed. Black Male Privilege. Now let's not get it confused with white male privilege. It isn't the same. This privilege is relevant only with...
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