Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Oct 30, 2011, 7:07 pm
For over 7 years The Lesbian Lifestyle has been bringing you stories from lesbian women around the world. We have featured several blogs, we gave you advice, and for 5 years we held the one and only all lesbian blog awards. During these years I have seen several lesbains blogs come and go, I have
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Oct 11, 2011, 8:55 pm
We dance and for a second she forgets and feels free. I see the beauty in her, breathe before a rooted thought of wrong doing enters and she kneels down, blindly searching for the chain to shackle herself back into the cage. For she loves the ones who created the walls and she hasn’t the
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Oct 7, 2011, 4:52 am
My name is Saffina and I’m a writer. There, I did it. I said it out loud, does that make it true? I also happen to be one of those lesbian thingies. A year ago, no-one had heard of me. Then I wrote a book (Sugar & Spice) with a friend of mine and ten
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Oct 5, 2011, 8:57 pm
Wegan aka Whitney & Megan from the blog What Wegan Did Next have launched a ‘Real Life Lesbian’ campaign and we need all of you lovely ladies to take part!! The aim of ‘Real Life Lesbians’ is to fill the lack of lesbian role models as well as increase the visibility of all types of
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Oct 3, 2011, 8:49 pm
I am a Serial Dater with a specialty. I date straight women, straight- married women, bitter divorcee’s and MILF’S. A specialty niche. A sub genre stuffed inside another sub genre, wrapped in an enigma, tucked into the under belly of the complex homosexual world. Gay women find me attractive but...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Oct 1, 2011, 9:38 am
When people look at me and my girlfriend this is what they think, I am the somewhat femme girl who thinks she is tough but is just a girl inside and my girlfriend is this strong hard core butch. Reality? Yes my girlfriend wears men’s clothes, has a shaved head, always wears a ball cap,
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Sep 28, 2011, 9:36 am
My family was never bound together by deep seeded ties. I was born and raised over on the left coast in Santa Cruz, Ca. My Mother (a rather unorthodox woman) felt no need for command performance, especially when it came sprinkled with guilt and obligation. It’s not that I never knew my aunts Lisa ...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Sep 26, 2011, 6:35 pm
Sunday was our anniversary. I had to work as I do every weekend. I woke up at 4am and bawled my eyes out for 2 hours before I had to get up and get ready for work. As I was getting ready, I couldn’t stop crying. I was late for for my shift, still crying
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Sep 21, 2011, 6:34 pm
My name is Jennifer Bird and I a senior film student at Savannah College of Art and Design. Currently I’m gearing up for my senior film, and am looking for the support of the LGBT community. Please take a few moments to look at the trailer for my project. Also, here is the project’s brief
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Sep 19, 2011, 6:34 pm
i can not tell you how pissed off i was last night. i mean seriously filled with rage to the point that i was going to hop in my car on a monday night at 11pm and go kick some serious ass. how dare you fucking tell me that i look like a lesbian? what
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Sep 13, 2011, 7:53 pm
Where is my moon-silvered devil tonight? Deep in dark woods, there’s nothing here I will search for someone bright. Half-obscured, I see a figure, slight, That wolf they call Desire is near Where is my moon-silvered devil tonight? Soft footsteps should evoke such fright, The whole moon’s in the ...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 29, 2011, 3:12 pm
I’ve read a lot of times that coming out isn’t one single moment, its an ongoing process. I didn’t want that to be true, I wanted a big dramatic moment and then for everything to just settle into a new pattern where I didn’t have to constantly open myself to people’s scorn or disapproval j...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 26, 2011, 3:10 pm
Yeah I’ve never been this desperate but I really need yalls help.. I’ve been In love with this girl for four years now, and she has felt the same. Problem is, she broke up with me beacuse she doesn’t want this “lifestyle.” Another catch, we couldn’t stay away from each other. So for thre...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 24, 2011, 7:53 am
Wow. I am thirty-three. I am not sure when that happened exactly. Thinking back this morning, I realize how far I have come. I have OVERcome so much in my life, and I have managed to remain kind, caring, affectionate, loving, compassionate and SANE. I remember being in my 20?s and thinking that I kn...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 22, 2011, 2:51 am
1. Lesbians won’t approach you at a bar because they think you’re a bisexual whore looking for a threesome with your boyfriend. 2. Nobody ever believes that you’re gay, and thinks that you’re just going through a phase because of a bad boyfriend experience. 3. Men become way too interested i...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 20, 2011, 7:50 am
No, I don’t feel bad. Yes, I think it’s funny. So what, you were called you a “psycho” and an “idiot”, why so sensitive? It’s great for all parties. I was creating entertainment, she should be happy. Saddistic? Childish? Whatever, it’s passionate and humorous. When did being passiona...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 15, 2011, 4:34 am
This is the most complicated and hurtful situation i have ever been in.. I found out about a month ago that my girlfriend of 5 years has been cheating and lying our whole relationship. shes been secretly still seeing her ex gf. This all came to light through a text i got, i have no
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 11, 2011, 9:34 pm
When I was a child, about 6, we used to have neighborhood “weddings” on the steps of the Baptist Church on our street. The girls wore their mothers’ lace curtains as veils. I, however, was ALWAYS the priest. Pretty weird, considering I was a Catholic kid and never even knew a “Protestant”....
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 10, 2011, 4:23 am
I was always the odd child. At 7, we were learning about drugs. I somehow got the meaning of ‘drug’ & ‘drink’ mixed up. Thus, at 7, I popped in after school one day yelling, “MOMMY, I’M THIRSTY, GET ME A DRUG?” It received some shock, a bit of laughter, & a note to my
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 8, 2011, 4:18 am
I was heartbroken at the time because of a girl, even then i didn’t know i was a lesbian but I promised myself not to let myself love again. but one day, I met this girl online, she was a friend of a friend, and the first time i talked with her, I fell in
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 5, 2011, 7:05 am
when I was in the first grade my next door neighbor and I would play house, I always played the husband, never the wife or the dog or the bestfriend… and we kissed and touched one another and we continued these acts of lesbian expression until we were in the 4th grade when I moved
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Aug 2, 2011, 8:18 pm
I dont know why I am putting this here, but this is one of the best places on the web to go that will let me connect with other lesbians for free. I have been a lesbian for 11 years, I was always one deep down, but i came out then, mostly to myself though
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 30, 2011, 4:59 am
Preface: This is my falling in love/realizing I am a lesbian/coming out story. It is all true and I am still living happily ever after with the Hot Redhead. We are getting married! I hope you enjoy reading as much as I’ve enjoyed writing, and please comment or email me if you have any critiques
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 15, 2011, 4:52 am
That gnawing throughout life is like a ball and chain, but made of a gentler yarn. It silently tugs at you with a sudden glance at the boy sitting three rows in front of you, on your wedding day as you smile for photos, as you lay there, legs spread allowing an act that feels
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 13, 2011, 4:50 am
Last summer, I broke up with my boyfriend that I loved so much. We travelled to Lebanon that summer.. there was this tomboy that somehow relates to me. Anyways, we were acting weird at night when everyone went back home. We texted each other until dozing off but act normal when our friends and cousi...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 12, 2011, 11:58 am
I just wanted people to know I have a blog with many topics called Eye Opening. One category is lesbian interest and I would like it if the gay community would come and find subjects interesting to you. You can also link exchange your lesbian blog with mine and we can create a great community.
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 11, 2011, 8:46 pm
Okay, it took me quite some time to come across a site like this. I’ve been desperately looking for some help and advice, a sympathetic to listen to what I’m going through. It annoys me to think that when you type in lesbian on google the first hundred pages still lead to porn. Anyway.. I’ve
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 11, 2011, 8:39 am
I am a lot of things to a lot of different people. I’m a mother and a lover and a daughter and a sister. I’m a friend, a co-worker, an acquaintance, and a stranger passing by. I’m an athlete and a computer geek, I’m an avid reader and I’m a pot of coffee a day
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 9, 2011, 9:35 am
so an opportunity was presented to me on friday night. it is an opportunity that made my asshole clench as does all of the things that i am unfamiliar with or things that are out of my comfort zone… but for real, it is too good to pass up. i am laughing as i am
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 9, 2011, 8:36 am
2001 General Conference, Mormon Style. The Prophet, President Hinckley was speaking… I scored two tickets to hear the Prophet speak and my lucky date… lil Miss Kacey. Cue closing prayer and… we’re out. Off to the park we go to just sit and chat. Who knew this was our first date. Is that a ti...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 7, 2011, 9:29 am
Our First Night We hold each other close and kiss for hours. Her soft lips caressing mine stirring a strong desire in my body. Every time we kiss my heart feels like it’s doing flips and flutters in my chest. This is a much stronger feeling than I‘d ever felt with a man. My body
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 5, 2011, 3:20 pm
Jo bullied me in seventh grade but by eighth grade, I wanted to take a picture of her on our last day. I still have it in my low budget scrapbook that includes all sorts of heinous memories from my torturous forray with puberty. But that picture lives on, her in a white tee, blue
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jul 2, 2011, 9:30 am
Hi…I am writing this more to get this off my chest than anything else. I know I am stupid but I can’t share this with my friends soooo here I am. I am 24 and a lesbian and I am out at home and with many of my friends. I have been dating this one
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 30, 2011, 9:26 am
Activism is important. It is important so that future generations of LGBT youth and adults do not go through what some of us went, and are still going, through. It is important to secure equal rights and protections, and to move toward tolerance and acceptance in mainstream society. I know this, bec...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 28, 2011, 10:59 am
Running 3 blogs I receive a lot of email regarding people who want me to promote their movies, music, and books. Recently I was forwarded one of these emails from Denise over at The Lesbian Lounge because she was aware of the large amount of teenagers that write into The Lesbian Question which is on...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 28, 2011, 9:25 am
Hey Shirlee! I just read your entry on TLL and I’ve got a story for you! Not all butches have commitment issues. heh. They aren’t all sex-fixated. I find it hard to relate to the “labels” that are in the lesbian community. But that’s just my point of view. And please don’t be offended �...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 25, 2011, 2:39 pm
I have been with this girl for about 3 years and known her since high school. We started off very good then got very rocky then went to good again. We had a place together and everything. About a month before we broke up we began arguing a lot more being less touchy stopped having
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 23, 2011, 4:35 am
I have very mixed emotions towards other lesbians. All my friends are straight, not one gay. It’s terrible i’d love to have a group of out-and-proud lesbian friends but I cant bring myself to let anyone of them in, or around my girlfriend. I trust Keisha (my partner) but not any other lesbians. ...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 22, 2011, 1:35 pm
Well I am 22 yrs old I have always liked women and have been with a few in my young years but I would always go back to dating men and even thru my relationships neva worked out with men cuz I was more of the manly type and even thru i knew i wasn’t
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 20, 2011, 1:30 pm
Wow..here I go; my story. I matter enough to have a story worth hearing? This is great. I am in love for the first time. I used to think(and still do sometimes) that love was just chemical, situational…fake. But I wanted that beautiful delusion of love; oh, I wanted it so bad. I was not
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 14, 2011, 2:54 pm
Readers, If you read any lesbian blogs at all I’m sure you are all familiar that 2 lesbian bloogers have been exposed as men. I have been a part of the lesbian community of bloggers for over 10 years and it saddens me that such a thing could take place though it far from surprises
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 14, 2011, 9:49 am
I have always thought of myself as bi-sexual, but the right woman never came along. I have only ever had long term relationships (so far men only) but they have never worked out (putting pillows in the way so that they are deterred from trying it on seems to work quite well). Just for the
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 12, 2011, 9:31 am
Uhhhhhh….. well here it goes I’m 9wks pregnant .gave up on looking for women for the past 2 to 3 yrs……. because I was attracting all the wrong types I’m a femme aggressive and the only ones I seem to attract are hardcore butches. Who I don’t prefer because they remind me too much of
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 11, 2011, 4:45 am
I spent the summer before entering college asking myself repeatedly, “why me?” The question I was asking myself came from the same place that I spent years trying to bury. I would say the burying of feeling started while the other girls in my Catholic elementary school played hop scotch and arra...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 9, 2011, 12:42 pm
There was the RTI weekend and ATI, now make way for Lesbian Temptation Isle (LTI). A new party series catering to lesbians is being planned in Montego Bay, St James, at the end of this month. Scheduled to take place from June 30 to July 3, LTI will be held in Ironshore, Montego Bay. The
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 7, 2011, 12:41 pm
So as the story goes………….I meet someone I like, we share much in common then a month or two into it, it comes up….”Do you ever want to have children?”……then it’s all downhill from here! I am looked at in disgust upon my response which tends to irate most. I have never desired to ...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 6, 2011, 8:01 am
I’d like to start by saying I’m a California native now living in Brooklyn, NY. When I moved here 3 years ago with my “butch” girlfriend and our two dogs I had long brown hair that I had blown out weekly and wore mascara daily. I was the well- received one in the relationship and
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 2, 2011, 10:29 am
Since January of 2011 Denise and Donna of The Lesbian Lounge Podcast have answered 47 of your questions LIVE on The Lesbian Lounge which broadcasts at www.mylesbianradio.com. I am happy to announce that the ladies are expanding the “Ask the Double D’s” segment to 30 minutes every week!!! What ...
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - Jun 2, 2011, 9:29 am
When I entered the coffee shop this morning from the bright sunshine outside, I paused by the door for a few seconds to give my eyes time to adjust to the darkness. As soon as I could focus, I started toward the back room, where I knew a friend of mine was waiting. There, framed
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Kelly L. posted an article on thelesbianlifestyle.com - May 31, 2011, 4:14 am
Latona and I met almost a year ago. It was a very unlikely match. She worked as a message therapist at a medical office I frequently visited for my back problem. I would see her for treatment and we would chat about our week or weekend, and that was it. I thought she was someone
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