Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Nov 28, 2009, 7:39 pm
  In connection with something somebody said, I was searching the internet for a simple, accessible, focused definition of  sex positive  which I could link to directly.   I fo...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Nov 28, 2009, 7:13 pm
  Whenever I’m feeling uncomfortable about people and their behaviour in a BDSM, polyamorous, or any other socially diverse context  (which unfortunately is pretty often),  I pr...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Nov 26, 2009, 11:16 am
  I note with some amazement that apparently I have never written in this blog about my punishment policy.   This policy is at the forefront of my mind lots and lots, so I’m genuinel...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Oct 22, 2009, 1:55 am
  Despite previous evidence to the contrary, you’ll be glad to hear that I do occasionally enjoy friendly, respectful, and just plain  nice  correspondence with other members of...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Sep 28, 2009, 9:11 am
  Sometimes I use the term  “vanilla“.   I thought that providing a definition would be a good idea, just so you’re all clear on how I’m using it.   va...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Sep 28, 2009, 8:56 am
  Sorry, this has been up for a bit but I forgot to mention it here.   A new spleencast is up!   This spleencast has a few interesting features worth mentioning:   Avail...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Sep 24, 2009, 7:46 pm
  A few nights ago I captured this comfy moment snuggling with kvetch. It was an enjoyable moment.   :)     Posted in Droolworthy Stuff, foot, leg, serf
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 27, 2009, 10:12 am
  Here’s a summary and the latest updates.   21 August, 10:23 IST  -  A member of the Irish BDSM scene whom I have never met and never had any contact with before initia...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 26, 2009, 10:40 am
  sparkle8faery apparently had a few things to say after my last post. For somebody who said they would have happily answered me if I’d emailed them with any questions, she seems quite r...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 24, 2009, 9:15 am
  sparkle8faery has left a comment on my Confused? post. In that message, she makes several statements:   “sheesh lubyanka, if you had just emailed me i would have happily answer...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 21, 2009, 9:14 am
  I appreciate that anybody who suffers from self-esteem issues can choose something about themselves which is outside their jurisdiction  (such as sexual orientation or BDSM preferences)&...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 21, 2009, 8:57 am
  submission is a gift   | səb•ˈmɪʃ•ən ɪz ə ˈgɪft |   idiom   A phrase in BDSM expressing support for the following beliefs: Fulfilling negotiated and agreed re...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 21, 2009, 5:16 am
  From:   yahoogroups.com Subject:   sparkle8faery wants to join iebdsm Date:   21 August 2009 10:10:08 IST To:   iebdsm-owner   Hello, sparkle8faery would like ...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 17, 2009, 4:47 pm
  I’ve been feeling really depressed lately.   I’ve been physically uncomfortable and my morale has been low.   The crap I’ve been receiving in recent weeks has not ...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 11, 2009, 1:41 pm
  Yet more love from the friendly respectaholics in my local Irish kink community.   This was left the day after I posted this, and the day before I received this. Coincidence?   Jud...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 7, 2009, 6:26 pm
  A comment arrived here this evening from somebody using a sock puppet name. I know, I know, such a new and creatively imaginative approach, I can hardly believe it myself.   We’ve...
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Lady Lubyanka posted an article on Lady Lubyanka - Aug 6, 2009, 9:48 am
  As you may remember, in response to recent crap from my persistent bdsmireland/Nimhneach  troll  correspondent, I published my initial bloggy response and my forum post linking to i...
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