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Cats and the Sense of Drama

Pamela M. posted an article on - Nov 10, 2009, 10:00 am
Some cats are performance artists. That’s a great thing. Wait a minute. Don’t cats hate to be laughed at? Yes, that’s right. Cats don’t like feeling the joke is on them. If ...
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Outdoor Cats: Increasing the Safety Factor

Pamela M. posted an article on - Nov 8, 2009, 10:00 am
We might have a situation where we feel we have to let our cats out, but still want to make the jaunts as safe as possible. What can we do? We must remember why the outdoors is dangerous. Cats aren...
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Movies to Watch with Our Cat

Pamela M. posted an article on - Nov 6, 2009, 10:00 am
There’s nothing better than cuddling up with our cat, and watching our cat’s favorite movie. What? Our cat doesn’t have a favorite move? How do we know? Some movies offer opportuni...
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Dear Pammy, Do Cats Have Special Water Needs?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Nov 5, 2009, 10:00 am
A reader writes: I have a filtering pitcher at home because I like the way the water tastes. Should my cats be drinking it too? Dear Readers, Yes. moar humorous pics If the filtered water tastes ...
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When Cat and Kitten Fight

Pamela M. posted an article on - Nov 3, 2009, 10:00 am
Ah, kittens. Nothing cuter. Adding a new kitten to the household is the easiest introduction of all; kittens tend to not trip an older cat’s territory protection, and they should be fixed long b...
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Learning Our Ways

Pamela M. posted an article on - Nov 1, 2009, 10:00 am
What is the best way to get our cats to behave? We need to set up feedback loops to shape our cat’s responses. Cats usually do not misbehave on purpose. A lot of our cat’s poor choices ca...
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Cat Growth Stages: Domestic Life Cycle

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 30, 2009, 11:00 am
It can be difficult to discover a cat’s age unless they are very old or very young, because cats give definite signs of what age they are in, but not how long they have to go to complete it. Ca...
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Are cats savage?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 29, 2009, 11:00 am
Cats are so good at being predators, it makes some people nervous. Aren’t cats killers? Well, yes. They are. They hunt and eat. But not us. see more Lolcats and funny pictures Cat do not see...
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Halloween Thoughts

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 28, 2009, 11:00 am
It’s a holiday closely associated with cats… and not to their benefit. Here’s some pertinent posts of past celebrations. see more Lolcats and funny pictures Should we keep our cat ...
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Discipline with Love. Literally.

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 27, 2009, 11:00 am
It’s not a method that works for everything, but when a cat is bothering us, we can do the martial arts move I call Hug Monster. As I’m working on the blog, six month old Olwyn is playing...
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A "Crazy Cat Man" Speaks

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 25, 2009, 11:00 am
How can anyone not love cats? My investigations to uncover the hidden prejudices which keeps cats out of loving homes continues. I know North American society has some conception that cats are a R...
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When Cunning Peaks

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 23, 2009, 11:00 am
Mr. Bond, at twelve years old, is right in the middle of that special time in a cat’s life when their mental powers peak, and they make their plans with great finesse. This is also when their b...
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I'm up on Paw-Talk

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 22, 2009, 5:55 pm
Paw-Talk is featuring my post, Dear Pammy: What Happened To the Cat I Chose in The Shelter? It’s on the front page now.
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Shelter Survivor Finds a Home

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 22, 2009, 11:00 am
Of course, we think our kitten, Olwyn, is magic. But she is! Turns out, she got another cat a home. I felt so much for Olwyn’s littermate; the tortoiseshell kitten who was the other survivor of...
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Henry has a blog now.

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 21, 2009, 11:00 am
Henry is a Fiber Artist Cat. He is fortunate enough to live with a person who recognizes his talent. Visit his blog to learn more about him and purchase his art. Cats do make decisions about shapin...
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Cats for People's Problems

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 20, 2009, 11:00 am
I think cats are the ideal choice for those who can’t get out as much as they would like, or any other kind of socialization challenge. Cats have some special features which makes them uniquely ...
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The Ultimate Cat Toy

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 18, 2009, 11:00 am
Believe a cat can fly. The Ultimate Cat Toy is the Galkie Kitty Tease, now available after too long a hiatus. I wanted everyone to know about this toy, and get one. This is the toy that makes RJ beg...
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Meet the Norwegian Forest Cat

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 16, 2009, 11:00 am
Enjoy the cat of the Vikings! About 4,000 years ago these cats came out of the Scandinavian forests to hang with the humans, and it’s no surprise that both sides feel special about it. “We...
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Dear Pammy, My Cat is Complaining

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 15, 2009, 11:00 am
A friend of mine had a problem: We went away on vacation for a week, and I got a nice cat sitter. But now that we are back, Mischa is doing her same routine, but she seems to cry and complain all the...
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Look for me on Paw-Talk

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 14, 2009, 11:00 am
I’m thrilled to announce that I’ll be crossposting on Paw-Talk, a site that is all about animals. The blogmas...
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Changing Outdoor Cat to Indoor Cat

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 13, 2009, 11:00 am
Yes, cats have fun outdoors. However, that fun comes at a price that might be too high. I’ve met a number of people who used to let their cats out. But, as they declare to me over and over, Som...
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Are cats treacherous?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 11, 2009, 11:00 am
It’s practically a reflex. When people tell me why they don’t like cats, it won’t be long before that word comes up. “Treacherous.” That’s why they don’t lik...
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Does having more cats mean getting less love?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 9, 2009, 11:00 am
Will cats bond with each other and not with us? If we are having trouble with one cat, won’t another be more of the same? The answers, in order, are: no way, no, and heck no. These questions co...
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The Enforcer

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 8, 2009, 11:00 am
A cat who is comfortable with the Enforcer role is most likely to be a Beta. Unlike the Spokescat, who simply needs good communication skills, the Enforcer is a cat who has a strong sense of proper be...
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Do Cats Want to be the Center of Attention?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 6, 2009, 11:00 am
Of course they do! When it’s the right kind of attention. see more Lolcats and funny pictures If we have a cat who seems shy, who hides, or avoids human contact, we have a cat who is not sure...
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The Begging

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 4, 2009, 11:00 am
Why do cats always ask for food? Why do they seem to obsessed with it? Do cats have any control over their appetite? There’s two things, maybe both, that are going on. One is a problem of perce...
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How far does love go?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 2, 2009, 11:00 am
I just read a fascinating dilemma over on Slate, in the Dear Prudence column. After four years of dating, my boyfriend and I have decided to move in together. Unfortunately, I have a cat and want cat...
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Tricks… are for Dogs

Pamela M. posted an article on - Oct 1, 2009, 11:00 am
As I explained in this post, The Myth of Obedience, cats can learn to do tricks. It’s just that most people don’t have the patience, or the belief, to make it happen. It’s much easi...
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Confirmed: Olwyn Has Tortitude

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 30, 2009, 11:00 am
Legend has it that tortoiseshell cats have that mixture of boldness, confidence, and attitude known as “tortitude.” Torties know what they want, and they know how to go after it. It’...
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The Truth About Cat Naps

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 29, 2009, 11:00 am
It can seem that all cats do is sleep. This isn’t that far off. Adult cats spend two thirds of every day in sleep. We can’t control that. But we can influence where, when, and what kind ...
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How cats show confusion

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 27, 2009, 11:00 am
We can look forward to confusing our cat. This sparks their mind, piques their curiosity, and makes us into enjoyable playthings. But how do we know we’ve actually confused them? We watch their...
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The play/prey drive

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 25, 2009, 11:00 am
Cats are all predators, but their expression of this drive will vary by their genetic inheritance and their early experiences. Some cats will be so domesticated that they readily make friends with sma...
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Their Thing for String

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 24, 2009, 11:00 am
What is it with cats and string? Why are cats helpless before yarn, string, tinsel, and electrical wires? We need to understand their natural habitat to unravel this mystery. see more Lolcats and f...
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What's in my cat: Ears

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 22, 2009, 11:00 am
One of the joys of picking out a mixed breed cat is figuring out which breeds might have resulted in our unique and wonderful companion. Whether we are able to offer an “open door” policy ...
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How do cats recognize us?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 20, 2009, 11:00 am
We need a good grasp of cat senses to understand the process by which our cat knows it is us when we walk into a room. While their hearing is far keener than ours, both high and low, their vision doe...
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What Cats See

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 18, 2009, 11:00 am
Cats have extraordinary vision; in some ways. There are surprising weak spots in other ways. But always, cat vision is designed to work best in their ecological niche as nocturnal predators, or night ...
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Mirroring: How Cat Buddies Happen

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 17, 2009, 11:00 am
It can seem that we have no idea why some cats become friends, and others do not. We adopt siblings, we get cats who resemble each other, or stick to one breed… and we still have cat conflicts. ...
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Why cats hide under beds

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 15, 2009, 11:00 am
There’s two reasons insecurity will send cats under our bed. One: beds are perfect “dens” for scoping out the unknown. There’s enough room to get away from the edges, and lots...
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Cats Who Get Fascinated

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 13, 2009, 11:00 am
It can be terribly exasperating when we have a cat who won’t let go of an object or an idea. No matter how we try to let them know climbing the drapes or knocking knickknacks down makes us sad a...
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Loving the Dignified Cat

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 11, 2009, 11:00 am
Some cats have more of a need to maintain than others. This doesn’t mean they are not affectionate or interested. They are simply rather low key about it, unless we are alone. It can be a heavy...
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The Absence of Malice

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 10, 2009, 11:00 am
We had some Cat Drama Theater the night before Olwyn’s spaying operation. It’s standard practice: no food or water for at least eight hours before anesthesia. It turned out, Dear Husband ...
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Why do cats like to be with us in the bathroom?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 8, 2009, 11:00 am
A cat’s curiosity is never more acute than in our own bathroom. What is it about this room that cats find so fascinating? It’s all about the cat’s drive to “figure us out.R...
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Cat Exercise Needs

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 6, 2009, 11:00 am
... ;s a number of wrong ideas about cat exercise floating around. Some of this comes from concern over their weight, from people mistaking them for dogs, or from not understanding what their natura...
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Are there "no bad cats?"

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 4, 2009, 11:00 am
The biggest, yet unspoken, worry people have about adopting cats from shelters is that they will somehow bring home a cat who cannot be tamed, trained, or made capable of affection. It’s possib...
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Affection Moves: Kitty Massage

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 3, 2009, 11:00 am
If we know how to pet our cat, we have the skills to massage our cat. Cats love the deep relaxation of a good massage and we will get a bunch of lovin’. Win-win! more animals Since cats ofte...
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Mutual Learning Curves

Pamela M. posted an article on - Sep 1, 2009, 11:00 am
To train our cats most successfully, we should regard it as a partnership process. While we are showing the cats what would make us happy, the cat is attempting to do the same thing. How well we get ...
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Why do cats lie in the sun?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Aug 30, 2009, 11:00 am
It’s distinctive to cats; that follow-the-sun nap across the floor. see more Lolcats and funny pictures When we know cats run hotter than we do, at a footwarming 102°, this behavior seems mor...
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When Cats are Lawyers

Pamela M. posted an article on - Aug 28, 2009, 11:00 am
We might question our communication skills, or think our cat “isn’t getting it.” We thought we declared an area or action off limits, and yet our normally cooperative cat finds a new...
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Dear Pammy, Where is the cat I chose in the shelter?

Pamela M. posted an article on - Aug 27, 2009, 11:00 am
I get a lot of emails like this: Abernathy was the cutest cat in the shelter. Well, I thought so. When he put his paw on my knee and looked into my eyes, I couldn’t leave him there. The shelter...
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Tidy Cat's Multiple Cat Owners Contest

Pamela M. posted an article on - Aug 26, 2009, 11:00 am
Tidy Cat Cat litter is launching a Campaign to End Cattiness with an essay/photo contest. As they say: TIDY CATS wants your help to celebrate multiple cat households and put an end to the cattiness a...
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