Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Sep 7, 2008, 4:49 am
Marianne asked what rules us. This is my response. When I close my eyes and make a wish, it’s to be happy. And I quantify it: it’s not to be deliriously happy every minute of the day, or to rel...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Aug 5, 2008, 8:49 pm
Okay, Smart Girls. New challenge. What rules you? What is the thing that makes your life good, or even possible? Is it as simple as the search for good food, good wine, good company? It is as complex ...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Jul 26, 2008, 4:00 pm
The first person I ever killed was the man who would have been ex-hubby #2. If he had lived. We were standing in the kitchen of the house I loved in the town I loved, after years in a house that was ...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Jul 21, 2008, 12:46 pm
Is the bad boy always going to be the one getting laid? Is there hope for the nice guy? Well, yes. Z said it... "it's not that she's not potentially interested in you in the long term..." Tha...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Jun 25, 2008, 1:54 pm
This post started out as a comment on Figleaf's post referring to this article on Feministe. Hurrah! The first sane argument I've read challenging the Nice Guys Don't Get Laid meme. Yes...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Jun 1, 2008, 11:31 pm
I know it's June and I'm late in making my first post--that is, my first Smart Girls Post, and my post about a first. I'm thrilled to be joining such an illustrious, lustrous, lustful, ...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - May 13, 2008, 12:24 pm
You always remember your first. “It’s my birthday”, he says. He is sitting at the crowded long table under the window. “Happy birthday”, I say. “What do you want for it?” “You”, ...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - May 12, 2008, 8:36 pm
Now,firstly apologies as this is really a post that comes from my other blog- so is old. Which I was on the verge of reopening- until..... which is post onto itself on why bloggers may feel pressed i...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - May 9, 2008, 7:25 am
Yes, I do realize that it is not May 1st. In fact, the first bit of May flew by for me, in a flurry of sex, après-sex, and planning sex. Not a bad way to lose a week or so. At the very end of April, ...
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Femme Collectiv X posted an article on Smart Girls Who Do It - Apr 26, 2008, 10:24 pm
The girl in the mirror is not me. She's so much less. Because I've been places, man, I've done stuff. I've lived in four countries, I've seen people being born and dying, I'...
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