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I really thought...

thalia posted an article on - Sep 13, 2011, 7:16 pm
...That I might get pregnant this month. Yes, we are 'done,' and yes, I am old, and yes, I am sub fertile, but silly old me thought that a holiday full of, um, enjoying ourselves, at something approximating the right time of month, might work. Of course if it had it would have had a lot of tensi...
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Pob figures it out

thalia posted an article on - Aug 19, 2011, 7:52 pm
Pob: When I'm a grown-up, I think I'll have two sisters and a brother. Thalia: Do you mean daughters and....? Pob: NO! I will have two sisters and a brother. And maybe the brother will be a daughter Thalia: Will they be your children? Pob: Yes Thalia: Who will be t...
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Junior's language at two

thalia posted an article on - Jul 10, 2011, 6:33 pm
At two Junior is genuinely chatty. His whole day is narrated, at great length and with frequent repetition: "Mummy, water in there! Water in there Mummy! In there! Water! Mummy! Water in there!" I long ago stopped counting his words but he is able to say most things he wants, and has some interestin...
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This time two years ago

thalia posted an article on - Jul 1, 2011, 7:30 pm
This time two years ago it was sultry. Boiling hot. I couldn't stop sweating. This time two years ago I had agonising haemorrhoids and was experimenting with condoms filled with water and then frozen to see if they relieved the pain. They didn't. This time two years ago my bag was pack...
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Things that don't get better

thalia posted an article on - May 15, 2011, 5:31 pm
A good friend has just had total pPROM at 17 weeks. It is her third pregnancy, and the longest one so far. It came out of her fifth IVF cycle. She is 42. She is single and has been using donor sperm, and of course dealing with all the challenges without a partner. The baby still has a heartbe...
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What I've always said

thalia posted an article on - Feb 28, 2011, 6:12 am
http://www.bmj.com/content/342/bmj.d223 As we've discussed on many occasions, despite what your friends, your mother, your husband, your doctor and the stranger in the supermarket will say, THERE IS NO DEMONSTRABLE LINK BETWEEN STRESS AND YOUR ABILITY TO CONCEIVE*, EVEN THROUGH IVF ...
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Junior's language at 18 months

thalia posted an article on - Jan 17, 2011, 4:18 pm
One of those posts that mostly for me. At 18 months Junior has a deceptive amount of language. Deceptive becuase his pronunciation is often poor, and because once he has a word that works for him, he sticks with it, even if it's wrong. And because of course we have Pob in our heads, and at th...
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About time

thalia posted an article on - Jan 9, 2011, 3:23 pm
Long time, yadda yadda yadda. I didn't mean to leave that post up as the last one for so long, but life just is busy and my blogging muscle (along with many other muscles!) is out of shape. First, I need to thank you so much for the sensitivity and thoughtfulness you put into the comments and...
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Being married

thalia posted an article on - Nov 24, 2010, 5:47 pm
I haven't been very settled, recently. Work is... frustrating. I don't feel in balance between work and home, yet not sure what to do about it. And I'm not sure if I am happy in my marriage. It's not a good place to be. I love my husband, but I'm not in love with him. And I haven't been for a...
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Pob snippets #10

thalia posted an article on - Nov 5, 2010, 6:24 am
Thalia: What did you have for your snack today, Pob Pob: I had several raisins, Mummy ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬ Thalia: The lift's not working, darling, let's take the escalator Pob: Why isn't the lift working, Mummy? Thalia: I'm not sure, sweeti...
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After infertility

thalia posted an article on - Nov 1, 2010, 5:17 pm
I can't remember what it felt like. I can remember in a factual way that it was awful. Painful, miserable, soul-suckingly awful. But I can't feel it any more. The extraordinary pain that I felt, the hole that I experienced deep inside isn't there any more. I don't know when it happened. I don...
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Junior can talk! (a bit)

thalia posted an article on - Oct 24, 2010, 7:52 pm
At about 15 months, Junior's words started to sound like words. He'd been clearly trying to communicate for a long time, but not managing to be consistent or very clear. While 'Daddy' has been around for a long time, and 'no' for slightly longer, other words appeared perfectly once, and then weren't...
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One of those lovely book lists

thalia posted an article on - Oct 18, 2010, 5:07 pm
Via one of my favourite bookshops, just found the '100 books every child should read' list, originally published in the Telegraph. Although I'm sure it was commissioned by someone else, I can't find the original ownership, and the article referenced doesn't exist on the Royal Society for Literature ...
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Things in my head

thalia posted an article on - Oct 2, 2010, 8:29 pm
I'm too fat. I'm fed up of being too fat. Must find time to exercise. Must not eat that biscuit... Is Pob overweight? What can I do about it? Should I ignore it? I don't want her to have an eating complex. I don't want her to be the fat kid. Help. Why isn't Junior talking? Is there som...
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So many thoughts, so few posts

thalia posted an article on - Sep 24, 2010, 10:34 am
Yeah yeah, terrible blogger, yadda yadda yadda. Working full time in a demanding job, two small children, big house, some semblance of a social life, a week's summer holiday, jewish holidays, pob's birthday, pob starting nursery, all of Pob's friend's birthdays (we are all friends from ante-natal cl...
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Junior at a year and three weeks

thalia posted an article on - Jul 27, 2010, 9:41 am
Junior at 13 months is a delight. He is in constant motion, although he will put his head down on the nearest part of us and say 'Aaah' to imitate the sound we make when giving a cuddle as he passes us in travel. He gives full on kisses with open mouth and lots of slobber, enjoyable in their enthusi...
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Things I want to remember

thalia posted an article on - Jun 19, 2010, 5:09 pm
Driving down the A1/M1 on the night of 4 January, two sleeping children in the back. Well, they were supposed to be sleeping. Junior, much to our surprise as he was not a fan of the car at the time, conked out immediately. Pob thought the whole thing was much too exciting, and spent the first two ho...
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Junior at 10 months

thalia posted an article on - May 13, 2010, 11:49 am
At 10 months Junior continues to be a (mostly) very happy, very engaging, and very determined baby. If he doesn't want to be put down, he holds his body rigid so that you can't let him go. If, despite that, you manage to put him on the floor (usually by simply lying him down) he screams the house do...
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Another meme. Because life is like that right now

thalia posted an article on - Apr 30, 2010, 4:41 pm
Thank you to the lovely May for this one. The rules: List 10 things that make your day & then give this award to 10 bloggers. Things that make my day: All the family in bed together in the mornings watching CBeebies. The hilarious conversations Pob comes up with while we watch Seeing that I've made ...
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Taking inspiration from Cali to get writing. You. Can. Only....

thalia posted an article on - Apr 14, 2010, 4:18 pm
Taking inspiration from Cali to get writing. You. Can. Only. Type. One. Word. No. Explanations. Not as easy as you might think… 1. Yourself: Tired 2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend: Lounging 3. Your hair: Twisted 4. Your mother/stepmother: Bothering 5. Your dog: Nope 6. Your favorite item: iphone 7. Yo...
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I don't deserve you

thalia posted an article on - Mar 16, 2010, 7:00 pm
I felt quite bad about that post after I wrote it. Like that stroppy email you should save and reflect on ovenight, rather than sending. I did in fact save it instead of posting, and wrote the Nostalgia post instead. But instead of saving to draft I saved it for later posting, and I was so busy at t...
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