The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Nov 18, 2009, 2:18 pm
Most adolescents who belong to an ethnic minority group wrestle not only with their self-esteem (like most teens), but also with identity issues unique to their ethnic group, such as dealing with soci...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Nov 14, 2009, 3:42 am
Dear Men, Let me explain some things too you because some where along the line you have gotten it twisted and you think its cool to be chumps. The current climate of dating is dog shit, no one is da...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Nov 10, 2009, 3:13 pm
So another season of Lincoln Heights has ended and if you aren't a watcher of that fantastic show shame on you. It's definitely a sleeper show with a multi-ethnic cast and swirl love so if you...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Nov 9, 2009, 11:56 am
If you haven't guessed by now then you ought to know that dating(for lack of a better term) in southern California is like kicking yourself in the ass repeatedly with some soccer cleats. But it mi...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Nov 4, 2009, 5:46 pm
So It turns out that Trey Songz really did invent sex who knew.... I don't know about anyone else but ummmm this vid was sexy, sensual, and just damned delightful. I thought Songz was c...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Nov 3, 2009, 11:58 am
You mean to tell me you can't look at this dude and tell his elevator don't go all the way to the top? AND you set up and let his ass reproduce as well? I blame every adult involved with this ...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 31, 2009, 10:05 pm
Look this post will not be a happy one I'm not in a good place. I can't sugarcoat anything for your delicate emotions basically I've hit the bottom and I'm tired. I'm so fucking ti...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 31, 2009, 3:37 am
It's a shame when this little boy has lyrics that are deep and clearly reflect a better outlook on love then any grown man singing r&b today. I know that someone had to write these lyrics for him ...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 25, 2009, 5:50 am
I was thinking about some of the singers that made a blip on the map and then just as quickly as they came they disappeared. You know it takes more than just having talent to sing you have to have a w...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 23, 2009, 11:43 am
People get tired...it's a fact. It's also a fact that people can only do to you what you allow them to do to you. Fact relationships should be a two way street or you will get ran ...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 18, 2009, 1:06 am
If you have never been to a concert and you are a woman then I must say Maxwell gives you one helluva show. Everyone was good on his tour from Chrisette Michelle to Common who rocked the house and got...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 9, 2009, 12:21 pm
I'm always soap boxing about something but I am also an advocate of treating one's self. Fact: this life is hard as hell and there will always be something to make you feel not good enough, so...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 5, 2009, 7:49 pm
It occurred to me that I often share the bad but not often the good, now my life is not as colorful as some but simple things delight me like finding a free standing M.A.C store in my local mall sudde...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Oct 2, 2009, 12:04 pm
Today is going to be a five for Friday just because it's easy, my very active niece is on the way over and this is something I can dash off hopefully before she gets here, so let's jump it off...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 28, 2009, 4:47 pm
I'm tired. I'm frustrated with my own life and frankly I'm just damned tired of being a black woman. I feel like if I was at least a white woman I would be engaged by now, I certainly woul...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 27, 2009, 11:53 am

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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 25, 2009, 2:27 pm
Dear Men, Hey guys let me talk to you for a minute about this very important topic that should be addressed. I have let it slide far to long because way too many of y'all are doing it and I know ...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 23, 2009, 8:22 am
Shug: More than anything God love admiration. Celie: You saying God is vain? Shug: No, not vain, just wanting to share a good thing. I think it pisses God off when you walk by the colour purple in a f...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 20, 2009, 5:37 am
I want start out by saying I appreciate the people that come here and read what I write especially those that have been here from the very beginning. I didn't even know what blogs were really I ju...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 16, 2009, 2:40 am
urban jungle by the78msj on Polyvore.com Don't you live being a female sometimes? Cute clothes, sexy heels, haute handbags almost, ALMOST makes up for the other stuff we go through...well kinda s...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 15, 2009, 4:06 pm
I'm sure if you are living on planet earth you have heard about the Kanye debacle, if not good for you stay away from celeb-whore-t's they are bad people but I posted the aforementioned video ...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 11, 2009, 5:48 pm
I'm 31. I'm black, single, no kids, female, and 31... I may never get married and the realest shit is I have never been in love! I have said I love you to many a "boyfriend" because I thoug...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 4, 2009, 1:30 am
Okay so apparently people are saddened and shocked over the appearance of Maia Campbell in the above latest video. If you don't know who she is, she is the girl that played Tiffany in the LL cool ...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 3, 2009, 2:39 am
I was searching through my blogs really trying to see if I had written about a particular incident in my tragic single life history A.K.A. tragic dating in southern California topics and I can't b...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Sep 1, 2009, 10:05 am
Sometimes I need a reminders of the things I already know its like pulling out a familiar check list and going over it every once and awhile to make sure your still on course and in line with the thin...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Aug 30, 2009, 6:03 pm
IMAGES COURTESY OF AMAZON.COM Okay so I have a membership at BLACK EXPRESSIONS BOOK CLUB check it out its a great site anyway the point of this blog is to talk about the series by Mary B. Morrison th...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Aug 25, 2009, 3:10 pm
I knew that I could trust MEDIA TAKE OUTto have a picture of a basic bitch. So I was inspired by an often used phrase on twitter known as basic bitch syndrome to write this post. Now a lot of you mig...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Aug 19, 2009, 1:17 am
So this statistic that dogs my heels, the one that says Marriage eludes high-achieving black women, that if you're over 30 black single educated hell even with no college degree after 30 if you wa...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Aug 18, 2009, 1:07 pm
I wrote this particualr blog awhile back, its one of those blogs that speaks on a timeless subject. As long as we have male and female interaction there will always be the need for this subject matter...
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The78msj S. posted an article on A BPYTS LIFE - Aug 17, 2009, 10:17 pm
So I was browsing the news site NEWSONE and a particular article in the opinion section caught my eye. Quite naturally I had to make haste to read the article to see what all it said. Most days when I...
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