Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Dec 4, 2009, 2:56 pm
Despite the title, this post is not really going to contain a test for husbands, just some lighthearted thoughts and stories about how marriage varies so much from couple to couple.  Years ago a cowo...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Nov 30, 2009, 4:19 pm
In a previous post I examined some common excuses for cheating that men tend to use when defending their actions to the woman in their life.  I promised to do some digging into why women cheat after ...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Nov 24, 2009, 5:57 pm
Recently, numerous articles have been surfacing stating that the romance goes out of a relationship once a couple has children.  Many of these articles claim to based on the report Life Without Child...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Nov 17, 2009, 2:44 pm
Internet dating has made finding love easier for many people, yet many people also find that it has made it easier for daters to lie.  This isn’t to say that there hasn’t always been a lo...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Nov 14, 2009, 12:29 pm
When it comes to making a woman happy in the bedroom, one of the most debated questions is “Does Size Matter?” The two most popular replies seem to be “It depends on how you use wha...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Nov 10, 2009, 4:37 pm
When choosing a man, there used to be a popular saying that went like this: “never date a man who is prettier than you are.”  The implication was that a man who spent too much time worryi...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Nov 4, 2009, 9:50 pm
Last week we tackled the topic of marrying young on our video blog.  We all had varying ideas about the role that getting married young played in helping or hurting the chances of a marriage survivin...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Nov 1, 2009, 3:56 pm
Couples are on average getting married later than they did in previous generations.  According to the last U.S. Census the average age for a woman to marry was 25.1 years and for men it was 26.7 year...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Oct 29, 2009, 7:44 pm
Sometimes it just works out that the person you fall in love with is many years older or younger than you are.  Although there is not an official age difference that defines what is known as a “...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Oct 26, 2009, 5:47 pm
Recently, our video blogging team tackled the topic “Why Do People Have Affairs?”  Two of our vloggers were brave enough to interview people on the streets of New York City, and they even...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Oct 20, 2009, 4:56 pm
Last week one of the biggest trending topics on Twitter was “Rules of Relationships.”  The words of relationship wisdom ranged from the philosophical to the practical.  There were seriou...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Oct 14, 2009, 4:19 pm
Not surprisingly, many of the Love Dilemmas that get posted on my site deal with giving things up for love.  Sometimes the things that are given up are tangible, and sometimes they are intangible.  ...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Oct 14, 2009, 11:04 am
If you ask most women what qualities they want in a man they will often name things like honesty and respect, yet many of these women are attracted to bad boys that are the total opposite of everythin...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Oct 10, 2009, 6:07 pm
A few years ago I was surprised to learn that a friend of mine, I’ll call her Jenna, was getting a divorce.  Her husband asked for the divorce after she admitted to having an affair with her pe...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Oct 4, 2009, 11:59 am
Our ability to connect more easily to the rest of the world seems to have left many people less connected in their real life relationships.  I’m always amazed at how many people I see ignoring ...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Sep 29, 2009, 4:22 pm
As we get older we tend to look at relationships in a more practical light.  We still want to have chemistry with that special someone, but we know that chemistry and even love is not enough to sust...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 28, 2009, 3:32 pm
When it comes to forgiving cheaters, there seem to be two basic schools of thought– 1) Once a cheater always a cheater and 2) everyone deserves a second chance.  Does it have to be one or the o...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Sep 22, 2009, 8:28 pm
When it comes to the idea of “true love” many people equate this notion with unconditional love.  According to wikipedia, unconditional love means “to love someone regardless of one...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Sep 15, 2009, 4:03 pm
I don’t want this to be another post covering Jon and Kate Gosselin of “Jon and Kate Plus 8″, but I can’t help but use Jon as an example for this topic.  Until the announcemen...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 10, 2009, 9:12 am
An affair is one of the most devastating things that can happen to a relationship, so why do people have affairs anyway?  Here what the advice panel has to say about adultery, as well as some special...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Sep 9, 2009, 12:09 pm
Normally I would say that you shouldn’t change for love and that you also shouldn’t plan to change your partner.  Despite this, I have to concede that what often makes relationships succe...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 9, 2009, 9:01 am
Maybe the chemistry is not there, or maybe your relationship with your boyfriend feels more like the way you relate to your best girlfriends.  The advice panel takes an in depth look at what a woman ...
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 6, 2009, 2:48 pm
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 5, 2009, 10:33 pm
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 4, 2009, 10:20 pm
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Tina T. posted an article on Relationship Videos LuvemOrLeavem Advice - Sep 3, 2009, 10:08 pm
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Aug 31, 2009, 6:12 pm
A few months ago I saw the movie Fireproof, which is the story of a man who decides to fight to save his crumbling marriage.  There is a strong religious message in this movie, but for the purpose of...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Aug 25, 2009, 11:00 am
Welcome to our 1st Blog Hop.  Scroll down for instructions on how to join. Our first blog hop is about singles because some of the most knowledgeable relationship bloggers on the web happen to be si...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Aug 22, 2009, 3:52 pm
Today’s post is rather short as we prepare for our first blog hop.  I wanted to let you know about two new relationship sites that have a unique angle.  The first covers men and romance and th...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Aug 18, 2009, 1:27 pm
A few months ago I wrote about reasons that couples have for not getting married.  Sine then, I have received so many comments from people asking why anyone would want to get married that I figured i...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Aug 9, 2009, 4:12 pm
This post was inspired by my beautiful Golden Retriever who bravely stood between me and a black bear that had wandered into our yard during a family vacation in Lake Tahoe.  Even when I was safely i...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Jul 28, 2009, 3:01 pm
At some point in the search for love we meet someone in a non dating situation that we’d like to know better.  We then need to decide if we should pursue this person, and if so, how?  It used ...
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Tina T. posted an article on LuvemOrLeavem Relationships - Jul 22, 2009, 6:26 pm
Our quest to find that perfect match usually leads us through several relationships before we find “the one.”  Hopefully with each relationship we learn something about relationships and ...
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