WOW! I am a white male who accidentally stumbled across this site….. I am excited to see this free thinking movement among African American women and applaud your courage in standing up for an issue that I know is controversial in the black community…. I have dated black women and this area of a conservative versus liberal world view has been a stumbling block for me in moving past the dating phase… I hope more African American women see the wisdom in your position and let diversity of thought emerge among women of color.
I am so happy to see a black woman who THINKS!! Too many emotionally retarded women and men who do what FEELS right or good have brought ruin to a large portion of many communities