... know one another, to accepting that we are different, but always to be there for each other. THe boys, while they appear different, are very close. My oldest says that people can't believe how colse they are that when he first said it, made me feel very proud. I never wanted them to feel that they were pitted against each other, that they were vying for my or my husband's attention ...

... this isnt just your normal teenage phase.. (her name is Sam by the way, if I refer to someone named sam, its her..) Her style has changed majorly.. 2 years ago, before we moved I had a really colse relationship with Sam, and she loved the color pink, loved to shop at aeropostle and vanity, hated piercings and dark colors, and then we moved to this town before school started, which was in August. ...